Mainly fix two minor bug
1. When handle BL*POP/BLMOVE commands with blocked clients, we should increment server.dirty.
2. `listPopRangeAndReplyWithKey()` in `serveClientBlockedOnList()` should not repeat calling
`signalModifiedKey()` which has been called when an element was pushed on the list.
(was skipped in all bpop commands, other than blmpop)
Other optimization
add `signal` param for `listElementsRemoved` to skip `signalModifiedKey()` to unify all pop operation.
Unifying all pop operations also prepares us for #11303, so that we can avoid having to deal with the
conversion from quicklist to listpack() in various places when the list shrinks.