this pr fix two wrongs：
1. When client’s querybuf is pre-allocated for a fat argv, we need to update the
querybuf_peak of the client immediately to completely avoid the unexpected
shrinking of querybuf in the next clientCron (before data arrives to set the peak).
2. the protocol's bulklen does not include `\r\n`, but the allocation and the data we
read does. so in `clientsCronResizeQueryBuffer`, the `resize` or `querybuf_peak`
should add these 2 bytes.
the first bug is likely to hit us on large payloads over slow connections, in which case
transferring the payload can take longer and a cron event will be triggered (specifically
if there are not a lot of clients)
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