After fork, the child process(redis-aof-rewrite) will get the fd opened
by the parent process(redis), when redis killed by kill -9, it will not
graceful exit(call prepareForShutdown()), so redis-aof-rewrite thread may still
alive, the fd(lock) will still be held by redis-aof-rewrite thread, and
redis restart will fail to get lock, means fail to start.
This issue was causing failures in the cluster tests in github actions.
Co-authored-by: Oran Agra <oran@redislabs.com>