b640e2944 added a test that now fails with valgrind
it fails for two resons:
1) the test samples the used memory and then limits the maxmemory to
that value, but it turns out this is not atomic and on slow machines
the background cron process that clean out old query buffers reduces
the memory so that the setting doesn't cause eviction.
2) the dbsize was tested late, after reading some invalidation messages
by that time more and more keys got evicted, partially draining the
db. this is not the focus of this fix (still a known limitation)
(cherry picked from commit 080ad5b0f297bc91f38cf49a7ff25605f4fcbe64)
463b97dacb