Fix#12864
The main reason for this crash is that when replacing a element of a
quicklist packed node with lpReplace() method,
if the final size is larger than 4GB, lpReplace() will fail and returns
NULL, causing `node->entry` to be incorrectly set to NULL.
Since the inserted data is not a large element, we can't just replace it
like a large element, first quicklistInsertAfter()
and then quicklistDelIndex(), because the current node may be merged and
invalidated in quicklistInsertAfter().
The solution of this PR:
When replacing a node fails (listpack exceeds 4GB), split the current
node, create a new node to put in the middle, and try to merge them.
This is the same as inserting a large element.
In the worst case, its size will not exceed 4GB.
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