besides, hooks test was time sensitive. when the replica managed to
reconnect quickly after the client kill, the test would fail
(cherry picked from commit f7e77759902aa19cfa537ed454e6bc987498e8c5)
there were two lssues, one is taht BGREWRITEAOF failed since the initial one was still in progress
the solution for this one is to enable appendonly from the server startup so there's no initial aofrw.
the other problem was 0 loading progress events, theory is that on some
platforms a sleep of 1 will cause a much greater delay due to the context
switch, but on other platform it doesn't. in theory a sleep of 100 micro
for 1k keys whould take 100ms, and with hz of 500 we should be gettering
50 events (one every 2ms). in practise it doesn't work like that, so trying
to find a sleep that would be long enough but still not cause the test to take
too long.
* replication hooks: role change, master link status, replica online/offline
* persistence hooks: saving, loading, loading progress
* misc hooks: cron loop, shutdown, module loaded/unloaded
* change the way hooks test work, and add tests for all of the above
startLoading() now gets flag indicating what is loaded.
stopLoading() now gets an indication of success or failure.
adding startSaving() and stopSaving() with similar args and role.
